This past week has truly showed me the divine power of the Lord in my life. I have been serving in the Young Womens for my church (we get the privilege to work with the girls ages 12-18 every Wed & Sunday) for almost 3 years and have loved it. I was first an advisor- teaching every other week. Then I was called to the Presidency to serve as the Secretary. I took on more responsibility- birthdays, newsletters, and ensuring that we had scheduled meetings monthly. I loved the women I worked with. A few of the women I had been diligently serving with had been working with the girls for 4 years and with a new Bishop, I knew changes were bound to happen.
When I got the call on a Sunday to meet with the Bishop on Tuesday, the wheels starting turning. Would I stay in Young Womens? What about Relief Society? Mark and I sat across from the Bishop and as he challenged me to have faith and issued my call as President, I kind of had to replay it in my head. I almost cried as the, "I knew it was coming" spewed out. In that moment, I was given the sacred privilege and stewardship over these girls. They are mine. Their salvation at this pivotal point in their lives turns to me, my advisors and counselors as their mentors and examples.
Then came the true testimony building. I knew I needed to select valiant women to help me keep this program moving and who would love and devote all they had to these girls. The Bishop wanted to make the changes fairly quickly which didn't give me much time to select the women I would be serving with- like we are talking 24 hours. That night, I prayed, fasted the next day and sought guidance from the Lord. Clarity came as it never has in my life.
I knew one of the women, my first counselor, who was currently serving with me, would stay. She works with the youth for her career and has an amazingly empathetic and uplifting demeanor. There was no question I needed her.
My second counselor was a woman I had never met. She was new to the ward and I knew very little about her. I knew her name and that she had served at Brighton camp, served a mission and that was pretty much it. Her excitement to be with the girls was undeniable and her "I will be here EVERY week", sealed the deal for me.
The
girl woman I chose for secretary is a mere 22 years old. I also knew her name but for some reason she was on my radar. She had been assigned as one of the sisters I was to visit teach and I had heard her speak in church about her degree program (same as mine) and that she did some sort of event planning. As I heard her bare her testimony Sunday about helping the girls "find your Prince Charmings" and "build relationships with your moms and dads", I knew that she would have the power to reach the girls the way no one else could.
I was supposed to find two advisors as well. One of them, a sweetheart that is currently still teaching. Her lessons are powerful, current and no nonsense. She gets it. She was a keeper.
I struggled with the last advisor's name. I had a list that I had made after scrolling through the ward directory but nothing was really standing out. I prayed about it. Kept thinking about a few names the Bishop had shared and I just wasn't feeling it. Then, as I was sitting there one day during work, I got the feeling to call "Jessica's roommate". I had seen her at church maybe once but I knew that I needed to call her. I sent the Bishop a text (plainly stating "What about Jessica's roommate?) and the call was made.
As I met this final woman I had called tonight, there was no doubt in my mind that I had made the right choice. She shared with me that she had served as an advisor four times in the 15 years she has been in a family ward. She had served a mission and she was excited to serve.
I learned again, that the Lord is irrevocably in the details. He knows these women. He knew that they would have a massive impact on these girls and could help uplift and support me in one of the scariest things I have done. He knew before I did whom he would call and I am honored that I could be the instrument.
I was sad to lose our sweet President. She was a rooter for the underdog. Always saw both sides. Constantly striving for the positive with an unshakable testimony. My beloved friend, the previous 2nd counselor was the yin to my yang. She has taught me so much about service. I have never met someone who was 100% willing to give and do anything that was asked of her despite her own needs and family. Our previous 2nd advisor was a true woman of faith and perseverance. An exemplar mother who made a mean hand out and was good with the bribes.
I only hope that I can help mold these girls into the types of women I have been able to serve with. I am indefinitely the one that is the most blessed by being surrounded by these stalwart women and beautful girls.
Ether 12:27
"And if men come unto me I will show unto them their weakness. I give unto mean weakness that they may be humble; and my grace is sufficient for all men that humble themselves before me; for it they humble themselves before me, and have faith in me, then will I make weak things become strong unto them."